A Sunday Morning at John O’Groats: The Start of Something Beautiful
It was a typical Sunday morning in Los Angeles, the kind of day when the rain makes you feel cozy but just a bit melancholic. I shivered as I stepped into John O’Groats on Pico Boulevard, instantly greeted by the warmth of the bustling diner. The owner cast a familiar nod my way, and a few regulars acknowledged me with knowing smiles—this was my sanctuary.
A Heart’s Crossroads
Four months had passed since my romantic world had turned upside down. Fresh from a long-distance relationship that had left emotional bruises, I had sworn off cross-country love for good. Back in Michigan, my ex was likely indulging in the sweet comfort of Mackinac Island fudge with her former beau, while I sat at the counter, nursing my fruitless bowl of steel-cut oats and promising myself to bury all regrets.
The Unexpected Encounter
It was during a fleeting three-week consulting project in Washington, D.C., that I had crossed paths with Renée. The chemistry was palpable; how could I ignore it? Despite my vow to avoid heartbreak, I found myself swept off my feet by her beauty, intelligence, and compassion. By the time I returned to L.A., I had secured her promise to visit—a development that had me both giddy and anxious.
Plans for Exploration
Renée’s arrival for a week-long work assignment filled me with excitement. We laid out a simple yet tantalizing plan for the day: after breakfast, I would meet her at her hotel, and together we’d embark on an adventure to explore the myriad sights of L.A.
Scanning the other tables at John O’Groats for familiar faces, I was suddenly drawn to a woman making her way to the only vacant stool at the counter. Could it be Renée? My heart raced. But just ahead of her, a man using a cane snagged the seat, leaving her with a grin that seemed to mirror my own surprise.
A Fortunate Intervention
Just as she looked ready to turn away, I waved her over to the empty spot next to me. We exchanged smiles as she approached, and a warm hug wrapped around us. “I missed you. The concierge recommended O’Groats,” she said, excitement palpable in her voice.
Fetching a sightseeing list from her bag, she shared her must-see spots: Malibu, the Sunset Strip, and a few others. I suggested the Petersen Automotive Museum, tapping into our shared love for classic cars, and blended in some of my favorite spots. Our final checklist was set.
Off to the Petersen Automotive Museum
After finishing breakfast, we eagerly set off for the Petersen. Enthralled by a fleet of vintage Corvettes, we barely noticed the charcuterie boards. We were too busy drooling over the stunning cars and reminiscing about our fathers’ shared enthusiasm for automobiles. The clock slipped away, and by the time we wrapped up our visit, it was nearly 3 p.m.
A Moment that Shifted Everything
As we exited, light raindrops began to fall. Our conversation drifted back to classic cars, but our stroll came to an unexpected halt when Renée noticed a shivering elderly woman standing on the corner of Wilshire Boulevard and Fairfax Avenue, looking lost. Without hesitation, Renée quickened her pace, approaching the woman with genuine concern.
“Are you all right?” she inquired, breaking through the woman’s tentative speech.
“I don’t… I’m not sure this is…” The woman’s words stumbled forth, revealing her confusion. Renée coaxed out her full thoughts, and the woman whispered an address—a lifeline for her in distress.
The Gift of Kindness
With a shared sense of purpose, Renée turned to me. “Let’s bring her home,” she suggested. We drove her just a short distance to where an anxious man greeted her at the door. “Mom, where did you go?” he asked, relief washing over him. His heartfelt gratitude was a testament to the small but significant impact we had just made.
As we walked back to my car, a warmth swelled in me. “That was a beautiful thing you did,” I commented.
“We did,” she corrected me with a smile that lit my soul.
“Well, once I saw her, I knew we weren’t here just to eat canapés and see Corvettes,” she responded with a spark in her eyes.
A Spark Ignited
Standing there amid the bustling city, it dawned on me that love could also manifest in the simplest of gestures. Obsessed with bypassing heartbreak, I realized this moment had ignited something profound within me. “Let’s skip the art exhibits and drive to Malibu,” I boldly suggested. “I want to be with you, the ocean, and the setting sun. I know the perfect place.”
El Matador State Beach
Arriving at El Matador State Beach around 5 p.m., the rocky switchback trail led us down to a breathtaking expanse of ocean. Renée was quiet, integrating the beauty around her. “These towers always take my breath away too,” I noted. She peeled off her shoes, rolled up her pants, and waded into the surf.
Laughter and joy blanketed us as the waves splashed our legs. I urged her to close her eyes and feel the waves dance around us, the moment feeling suspended in time.
A Night to Remember
We opted to forgo Geoffrey’s, Hollywood, and the Sunset Strip for a night immersed in our refreshing connection. When I finally dropped Renée off at her hotel, our kiss goodnight sealed plans for a revisit to those iconic spots the next day—sans the ocean-soaked clothes.
Reflections on Time
Reflecting on that fateful day more than 30 years later, I’m still captivated by the journey Renée and I have taken together since then. Our love story continues to thrive in L.A., and those cherished landmarks remain integral to our yearly anniversary traditions—this time with bathing suits and towels in tow.



